{"id":1252,"date":"2017-07-18T08:56:26","date_gmt":"2017-07-18T13:56:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bly.com\/blog\/?p=1252"},"modified":"2017-07-13T08:57:07","modified_gmt":"2017-07-13T13:57:07","slug":"the-worst-way-to-approach-a-potential-client","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/general\/the-worst-way-to-approach-a-potential-client\/","title":{"rendered":"The worst way to approach a potential client"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Subscriber HG writes:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As a big fan of your work, I must confess your web pages are<br \/>\nboring, and I guess they are not converting to sales as they did<br \/>\nbefore, isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Please allow me to restore a few of your web pages from the<br \/>\narchaeological ruins to the modern slick, easy to read, search<br \/>\nengine friendly, better converting pages, OK?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you do not want to make more money, then just neglect this<br \/>\nemail.&#8221; (A very snarky comment.)<\/p>\n<p>This approach to establishing a relationship with me is really<br \/>\nstupid, for 3 reasons&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>First, HG does not know my landing page conversion rates. He<br \/>\nassumes they are poor.<\/p>\n<p>But as Felix Unger pointed out in an old episode of The Odd<br \/>\nCouple, &#8220;When you ASSUME you make an ASS of U and ME.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In fact, the pages he cited as failures pull like gangbusters;<br \/>\none ebook sales page has a 32% conversion rate.<\/p>\n<p>My pages make me so much passive income that, if I so desired, I<br \/>\ncould quit my freelance copywriting job tomorrow, and never work<br \/>\nanother day in my life. (But of course that idea is anathema to<br \/>\nme.)<\/p>\n<p>Second, even if I was jonesing to improve some of my pages, why<br \/>\nwould I hire HG? He gives not one shred of evidence that he has<br \/>\nany skills or success in this area.<\/p>\n<p>Third, the part of his message I left out &#8230; and that you do not see<br \/>\nhere &#8230; was even more off-putting and insulting to me &#8212; and<br \/>\ninsulting strangers rarely wins them over.<\/p>\n<p>When I posted HG&#8217;s comments on Facebook, one of my FB friends,<br \/>\nJS, wrote:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;All he is trying to do is use the same tactics as email spammers<br \/>\nthat supposedly work on the weak-minded masses.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He has no persuasive tactics. The entire thing is a pitch. It<br \/>\ncomes from someone who thinks he is good at manipulation, though<br \/>\nin actuality, he sticks out like a sore thumb.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Also on this FB thread, BM was even harsher: &#8220;Arrogant,<br \/>\ninsulting, and a blast sent to hundreds of people whose websites<br \/>\nhe has never seen. I see these every day.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;A good example of what NEVER to do. He needs your e-mail<br \/>\nmarketing course, but a frontal lobotomy first.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Another FB friend, MS, said:<\/p>\n<p>There are a few turn-offs for me with this sort of<br \/>\nthing&#8211;implying expertise without having researched his<br \/>\nassertions, the sense of a little dishonesty through flattery,<br \/>\nand a scare tactic infused with some arrogance.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My reaction, from an open minded perspective and willingness to<br \/>\naccept help, is to tell him to take a hike!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s just what I did.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Subscriber HG writes: &#8220;As a big fan of your work, I must confess your web pages are boring, and I guess they are not converting to sales as they did before, isn&#8217;t it? &#8220;Please allow me to restore a few of your web pages from the archaeological ruins to the modern slick, easy to read, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1848,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1252","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1848"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1252"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1252\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1258,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1252\/revisions\/1258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}