{"id":1636,"date":"2018-07-31T11:45:05","date_gmt":"2018-07-31T16:45:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/?p=1636"},"modified":"2018-07-30T18:46:16","modified_gmt":"2018-07-30T23:46:16","slug":"8-ways-for-writers-to-overcome-loneliness-and-isolation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/general\/8-ways-for-writers-to-overcome-loneliness-and-isolation\/","title":{"rendered":"8 ways for writers to overcome loneliness and isolation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What do writers and scientists have in common?<\/p>\n<p>This: for many years, the stereotype of each was a dedicated<br \/>\nindividual working alone.<\/p>\n<p>The full clich\u00e9 had the writer banging away on his typewriter<br \/>\nsitting alone in a room, possibly in a cold garret furnished in<br \/>\nearly poverty.<\/p>\n<p>Novelist Philip Roth, for instance, has said many times: &#8220;Writing<br \/>\nin a room by myself is practically my whole life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For science geeks, the stereotype was the &#8220;mad scientist&#8221;<br \/>\nworking along in his lab, surrounded by flasks and beakers filled<br \/>\nwith bubbling fluids.<\/p>\n<p>Some people find these stereotypes a bit romantic and appealing;<br \/>\nothers see them as depressing.<\/p>\n<p>But the fact of the matter is .. they aren&#8217;t true &#8212; for either<br \/>\nscientists or writers.<\/p>\n<p>Or at least they don&#8217;t have to be. And probably shouldn&#8217;t be.<\/p>\n<p>As far as scientists toiling away in solitude, Yale Professor<br \/>\nPriyamrada Natarajan writes:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Although advances in science and technology are often portrayed<br \/>\nas the work of solitary men &#8230; science has always been a<br \/>\ncollective enterprise, dependent on many individuals who work<br \/>\nbehind the scenes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For writers, though we are more likely to work alone than on a<br \/>\nteam, many of us either want or would benefit from more &#8220;people<br \/>\ntime&#8221; and less alone time.<\/p>\n<p>Why? Spending time with others helps overcome isolation and<br \/>\nloneliness, enables productive collaboration, and provides an<br \/>\nopportunity for support and feedback.<\/p>\n<p>If you are a writer alone most of the time but want to increase<br \/>\nyour &#8220;people time,&#8221; here are 8 ways to achieve that goal:<\/p>\n<p>1&#8211;Join a writer&#8217;s group.<\/p>\n<p>Many towns have writers&#8217; groups, usually mostly amateurs, which<br \/>\nmeet to read and critique each other&#8217;s work.<\/p>\n<p>2&#8211;Attend writing conferences.<\/p>\n<p>There are a ton of them all over the country, and they are<br \/>\nadvertised in writer magazines such as Poets &amp; Writers, The<br \/>\nWriter, and Writer&#8217;s Digest.<\/p>\n<p>The advantage over #1 is that, unlike local groups consisting<br \/>\nalmost solely of amateurs, at writing conferences the attendees<br \/>\nrange the spectrum from rank amateur to working journeymen to<br \/>\nsuperstars &#8212; and often editors and literary agents as well.<\/p>\n<p>Two I have attended and can recommend personally: ASJA for book<br \/>\nand article writers, and AWAI for copywriters.<\/p>\n<p>3&#8211;Find a writing buddy.<\/p>\n<p>Reach out to a writer you meet at #1 or #2, and pair up as<br \/>\nbuddies, much like kids have a swim buddy at summer camp. You<br \/>\ncan read each other&#8217;s work and give feedback, plus you can have<br \/>\nwriterly chats and moral support.<\/p>\n<p>4&#8211;Hire a coach.<\/p>\n<p>We live in a coach-crazy world today. If you hire a coach, make<br \/>\nsure the coach is an active and successful writer in the niche<br \/>\nyou are pursuing.<\/p>\n<p>5&#8211;Join a Mastermind group.<\/p>\n<p>According to an article in Forbes, Mastermind groups are<br \/>\nrelatively new to most people, even though Napoleon Hill created<br \/>\nthe concept around 75 years ago.<\/p>\n<p>A mastermind group is designed to help you navigate through<br \/>\nchallenges using the collective intelligence of others &#8212; some who<br \/>\nare your peers, others who may be ahead of you &#8212; and there is<br \/>\noften a large fee to belong.<\/p>\n<p>6&#8211;Professional association memberships.<\/p>\n<p>I am a chemical engineer and as such am also a member of the<br \/>\nAmerican Institute of Chemical Engineers.<\/p>\n<p>Medical writers join the American Medical Writers Association.<br \/>\nYou get the idea.<\/p>\n<p>Benefits to association membership are many and varied &#8212; from<br \/>\nnetworking and self-promotional opportunities, to conferences and<br \/>\neducation, to affordable health insurance and discounts on<br \/>\nproducts and services.<\/p>\n<p>7&#8211;Build a team.<\/p>\n<p>Hire a virtual assistant, proofreader, copy editor, website<br \/>\ndesigner, bookkeeper, CPA, and others to build a team that<br \/>\nsupports you.<\/p>\n<p>The obvious benefit: outsourcing everything but the writing makes<br \/>\nyou more productive and increases your writing revenues.<\/p>\n<p>Also, as you gradually build relationships with team members, you<br \/>\nare almost part of a virtual organization.<\/p>\n<p>8&#8211;Take a class.<\/p>\n<p>Many adult education programs at high schools and colleges offer<br \/>\na variety of writing classes including creative writing,<br \/>\ncopywriting, and journalism.<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line: If you are a writer &#8230; and you feel too alone and cut<br \/>\noff from others, especially those in your line of work &#8230; these 8<br \/>\nideas can fix that.<\/p>\n<p>As Jor-El told Kal-El in the original &#8220;Superman&#8221; movie &#8212; you will<br \/>\nnever be alone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do writers and scientists have in common? 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