{"id":905,"date":"2013-08-01T08:03:32","date_gmt":"2013-08-01T13:03:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bly.com\/blog\/?p=905"},"modified":"2013-08-01T08:03:32","modified_gmt":"2013-08-01T13:03:32","slug":"is-positive-thinking-overrated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/general\/is-positive-thinking-overrated\/","title":{"rendered":"Is positive thinking overrated?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of my subscribers ask me how I get motivated to do my work<br \/>\n&#8230; but the truth is: I think the whole idea of motivation is<br \/>\noverrated.<\/p>\n<p>My subscriber RM writes: &#8220;Bob, thanks for balancing out the<br \/>\noften severely unrealistic optimism that often comes with<br \/>\nmotivational literature &#8230; you&#8217;re keeping it real.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A whole mini-industry, motivational speaking and publishing, has<br \/>\nevolved to help people worldwide find their motivation.<\/p>\n<p>But I believe you can do what you must do to succeed whether you<br \/>\nfeel motivated or not.<\/p>\n<p>In an attempt at humorous marketing, an actor reading the script<br \/>\non a radio commercial pauses and asks his producer, &#8220;What&#8217;s my<br \/>\nmotivation here?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The producer&#8217;s deadpan answer: &#8220;We&#8217;re paying you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>JH, a successful novelist, says that the secret to his success<br \/>\nis that he writes every day whether he feels motivated to or not.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Writing is my job,&#8221; says JH. &#8220;If I work in the chicken plant,<br \/>\ndo I not go to the chicken plant today just because I don&#8217;t feel<br \/>\nlike it?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I also don&#8217;t place overly much importance on positive thinking<br \/>\nor optimism.<\/p>\n<p>The book &#8220;The Secret&#8221; says that if you keep thinking positive<br \/>\nthoughts, you will get or become what you think about.<\/p>\n<p>Note: I well understand the Law of Attraction. Please do not<br \/>\nwrite to me suggesting I do not and offering your explanation. I<br \/>\nwas listening to Earl Nightingale when many of my readers were<br \/>\nin diapers.<\/p>\n<p>The Law of Attraction notwithstanding, my experience is that<br \/>\nideas, visualization, affirmations, and positive thoughts alone<br \/>\nare next to nothing. It is action that gets you the results.<\/p>\n<p>I am by nature a pessimist. Dr. Martin Seligman, a psychologist<br \/>\nand author of the book &#8220;Learned Optimism,&#8221; says that an<br \/>\nadvantage of pessimists is that they see things realistically.<\/p>\n<p>As a negative sort of person, I do at times wonder whether, in<br \/>\nmy large body of how-to writing, I may have failed to<br \/>\nsufficiently motivate my readers. My writing tends to be long on<br \/>\nactionable ideas and short on rah-rah talk.<\/p>\n<p>Many info marketers motivate by promising outrageous results in<br \/>\ntheir promotional copy and their products. A lot do so by hyping<br \/>\nthe business opportunity they are selling in their writings.<\/p>\n<p>But unless the buyer follows the instructions given in the<br \/>\nproduct and keeps at it, he is unlikely to achieve the results<br \/>\nhe wants.<\/p>\n<p>I like what my colleague info marketer FG says: &#8220;I make no<br \/>\npromises about your results. That&#8217;s up to you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nike&#8217;s iconic ad campaign encapsulates my advice to you: &#8220;Just<br \/>\ndo it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nike has it right. What matters most is not what you think or<br \/>\nsay; what matters most is what you do.<\/p>\n<p>Thomas Carlyle said it this way: &#8220;Produce! Produce! Were it but<br \/>\nthe pitifullest infinitesimal fraction of a product, produce it<br \/>\nin God&#8217;s name! &#8216;Tis the utmost thou hast in thee: out with it,<br \/>\nthen.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of my subscribers ask me how I get motivated to do my work &#8230; but the truth is: I think the whole idea of motivation is overrated. My subscriber RM writes: &#8220;Bob, thanks for balancing out the often severely unrealistic optimism that often comes with motivational literature &#8230; you&#8217;re keeping it real.&#8221; A [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1848,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1848"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=905"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/905\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":911,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/905\/revisions\/911"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bly.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}